No. 18: Not being dependable.




Are you dependable?

Can you be depended upon to come through, come what may?

This is not about how much money you have, or what and who you know. It is about standing and counting for something every time.

Can you be trusted to say what you mean and mean what you say every single time?

This attribute alone may distinguish you from everybody in your organization, your circle of friends, and in your family.

It is easier to only do things that are convenient

It takes a lot to be very dependable, because sacrifices have to be made, but at the end it always pays off.

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