No. 29: Treating people badly



What’s the point?

Except you are a sadist, you most likely won’t feel good when you treat people badly.

And the badly treated party won’t feel good about you or the experience either. Coupled with the fact that as humans, when given the opportunity, we love to serve the revenge meal really chilled, you probably would get it worse the moment the badly treated party has the opportunity to pay you back in your coin.

You may hide under the guise or excuse of morality, ethical stand, discipline, proactivity or exemplary leadership to treat people badly. You may be doing all these and not know you have treated, or are treating people badly, but it changes nothing nonetheless.

The first characteristic of humanity is imperfection. We make mistakes as effortlessly as we breathe. But, guess what the constant thing about life and humans is…yes you guessed right...change.

Humans may make errors, but even more importantly, humans can also change…and for the better too.

So, before you treat anybody badly, look at the bigger picture, your career, your life, the future, and be guided.


#leadership #productivitytips #worklifebalance #2020strategy

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